Yes, you read that right. We're moving home... moving back to our hometown of Martin, Tennessee.
Some of you read and follow regularly, and if so, you're probably scratching your head thinking, "what?, they just moved to Columbia, MO"... and you are right. We just moved here last November, the week before Thanksgiving to be exact.
Russ (we) took a career move and we moved from Evansville, Indiana with great excitement. We were moving to a really nice city, Russ was going to be working from home, and I was going to be staying at home with our children. It was an exciting move for us as a family, and we are extremely thankful for taking this move. We have made friends through church, have several great neighbors, live in a great neighborhood, have seen and done some neat things, and we are extremely pleased with Lawson's school. Life is great in Columbia.
With all of that said, you maybe wondering "why?"... Why are they moving back?
As great as life is here in Columbia, we are six hours from our family. Russ travels frequently, leaving me here with the boys, which is not a big deal, but having family to help would be very nice. And just the simple fact that we have come to realize that raising our boys close to family is important to us. Our children will be around their grandparents on a daily basis, they will get to know their other family members and cousins, they will have the opportunity for agricultural exposure, and they will be raised with many of our friends' children. These things are important to us.
We've always valued these things, however it wasn't until visiting our hometown became more difficult due to distance that we noticed how much we valued these things. And agriculturally speaking, that's who we are. Our agriculture backgrounds made us (Russ and me) who we are today and living in a nice subdivision isn't going to gain the boys those experiences. All of those pieces combined, we made the decision that we need to be at "home".
It's been eight years since we've lived at "home". Russ and I married, returned from our honeymoon, and immediately left for West Lafayette, Indiana. We have never had our family in our back yard, so to speak. We are a little nervous about this aspect, but believe the other advantages outweigh the possibility of our family driving us crazy. :) We love you, mom and dad... on both sides. There will be a balance and I believe we can find it. Our boys deserve this. And so does our family.
So, how did this happen and what happens next?
Well, we made the decision to simply ask Russ' boss if we could move to Tennessee. This was a BIG decision and took a LOT of courage. What would they say? How would they respond? Would they say, "are you crazy?" We just didn't know how this would all turn out. But, we prayed, and we prayed, and we prayed. Russ and I have always been very private with our moving decisions, not telling anyone we were moving until it was a signed and sealed deal... having everyone's input is not always a good thing, if you know what I mean. But this time around, we told everybody! If we thought they would pray, we told them. And let me tell you, we have never felt so good about a decision... God's hands were so evident in every step of this decision. It is the right thing to do... without a doubt.
As to what happens next... our house has been on the market now for 68 days. :( Yes, I've neglected posting this. Our last house sold in 30 days so this has been discouraging to us, but once again, God is on our side and isn't quiting on us now. He is faithful to His children and we trust Him. We have a house there in Martin on contract and they are so kindly waiting until ours sells, no matter how long it takes. Isn't that nice?
We are very excited and ask for your prayers, too. Will you please pray that our house will sell to the special couple/family who needs our house? We know it isn't all about us and therefore pray for the family who needs to live here... we pray that God will bring them to our door, and that they will fall in love, causing them to buy our house.
With a corporate move, there is typically a buy-out if your house doesn't sell within a 60-90 day period, they pay your closing costs and realtor costs, and then they come pack you up, move you out, then move you in and unpack you. Not this time. This will be our first move as big boys and girls moving
all by ourselves. A little scary, but that was their condition on us moving back home. It's all us. So, here we go.
I will keep you posted, but in the mean time, we ask that you please pray for our house to sell, and for praise and thanksgiving for the opportunity to move back home for God truly answered the prayers of many.
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I found a picture that I think is perfect for this post...
8 years later... we're returning "home".
In this picture, we are leaving our wedding reception, which was held in Martin, with a wide-open road ahead. We would have never imagined we would be moving back to West Tennessee only eight short years later.
We're excited about what's to come and trust in our Lord to continue to guide and bless us and our family.
Thanks for reading and thank you for praying, too!